Hi guys, not the update I want to write, but just wanted to put this out here in case it helps someone in the future.
We have done a few more face to face meetings (along with daily room swapping and seeing eachother through the gate). Unfortunately every single time ended in aggressive fights...
thanks for this, I really appreciate it. We ordered a more structured gate (we were using a mesh screen) so hopefully that will offer more protection from fluffy jumping at it!
Ugh. Fluffy accidentally got out and they tumbled down the stairs in a brawl, and gooby peed from being so scared. This whole process is so discouraging :bawling2:
It's really hard to get Gooby distracted with play but usually will get distracted for a few seconds at a time with a string toy. Fluffy is a bit easier to distract with play (either with a string toy or this toy pickle that she loves chasing after). Gooby ultimately prefers to watch Fluffy...
This is going to be a long one, but I'm just feeling so lost! Hopefully someone can help!!
I found Gooby under a car when he was about 3 months old, and took him in. That was a bit over two years ago, so he is now around 2.5 years old. My boyfriend and I have moved in together since then, and...